HOW TO FLIRT WITH WOMEN | DATING TUTORIAL for Approaching Women, Getting Sexual & Seduction

DATING TIPS TUTORIAL – How to flirt with women start a conversation with a girl and not be creepy. To know what the best openers are (or conversation starters) and how to approach her can be frustrating. The goal is to get sexual and get seduction.

In this video Steve Mayeda breaks down seduction using social dynamics and taking the PUA our or PUA to have it all make sense for the modern day alpha male ready to build a connection as you are.

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Recorded Sept 6, 2017
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TIME CODE OF SLIDES

2:15
THE MOST IMPORTANT
THING TO KNOW ABOUT
OPENING
OR ATTRACTION
is to have the skill to get
them to pay attention
to you for the first 10-15 seconds.
It you can get this you
can move a
conversation in MANY directions

02:56
WHAT MAKE
THE SEXUAL LIFE
Completely Unique
All of our Social Dynamics
are 100% based on ourselves.
Because of this they
outperform in function and
result from ANY other system.
Sadly no one else does this

04:26
HUMAN CONNECTION
Does not need to lower
anyone to get their attention,
all you really need is 10-15
seconds where they
pay attention to you.

04:42
TOPICS OF
RAPPORT
How you see yourself
You other people see you
Wants & Desires
What is Attractive to You
Ambition
Purpose
Beliefs
Family
Relationships
And the list can go on…

08:34
EXAMPLES OF NEGS
FOR SOCIAL VALUE

“How do you roll with this girl”
“I can’t believe you just said that…”
“You smile in a really weird way”

The goals was to assert value,
cut down someone or take
control of the conversation
via belittling someone

This misses something so
value in Social Dynamics
“the Pull”

09:55
THE PULL
In a Tease or Neg
Topic Sex

“Oh my God, you’re
such a prude…”
They Push Back
“No I’m not!”

THE PULL
“Well prove it to me…
show me the pictures i
n your phone.
I bet they’re all a bunch
of PG 13 ‘I’m cute’ selfies”

11:18
PUSH PULL
Using Teases on
Passions & Judgment

Examples –
“Oh my God, I can’t talk to you, you’re the least passionate person I know…”

or

“Oh my God you’re the most judgmental person I know”

11:59
SELF-PERCEPTION
This is a tool used in TSL Online
to design Social Dynamics around ourselves.
Download the old version below.

“I like talking to people
when I am happy.”
If I know that I feel this way,
my social dynamics can
be used to move in that direction.
If I want to be happy
socializing, I want to get there.

“I can’t talk to you…you’re
like the least
happy person I know”
Then when they react back
I can qualify them on that.

12:46
SOCIAL-PERCEPTION
Also from the ID Workbok .

“I get really insecure around
people that are judgmental
around me. ”

“What is that on your…face…
wait I can’t say that around you
You’re probably one of those
judgmental people”
Then when they react back
I can qualify them on that.

13:23
WHAT WE ARE
ATTRACTED TO
This is also a subject in the ID Workbook

Let’s say we are attracted
to someone who is good
looking but also intelligent.
We want to move the conversation
there after only knowing them f
or 20-30 second.

“Oh my god I can’t talk to y
ou. You’re one of those
really attractive women
who just gets by on y
our good looks.”

This is how we should
be using Social Dynamics

14:01
BAIT IS ALSO
PUSH PULL
For you’re Attraction
Material.

2 Forms of Bait
1)Being Vague
2) Asking & Denying

14:28
EXAMPLE
OF BEING VAGUE

“Oh my God I can’t….ask
you this…
are you somebody who is
really openminded?
I wanna tell you this story…”

Then I can move into a
story about open mindedness
or a really deep or powerful topic.

14:50
EXAMPLE OF
ASKING & DENYING

“I wanna ask you this…
but I better not”

They push back
“Wait tell me…”

Jump to a big question
“So what’s your relationships
history? Do you stick around
with people for a long time
or a short time?”

15:12
ANOTHER EXAMPLE OF
ASKING & DENYING

“Where are you from
originally”

They push back
“California”

Deny
“Oh I can’t ask you this then…
well I am going to ask
you this instead. Are you
someone who attracts
somebody that cheats?”

17:09
STACKING
ATTRACTION
RAPPORT
THEN INTENT

Tease – “Well that’s an interesting
fashion choice…did you grow up
without a mother?”

Qualifier – “Who are you closer to
your mother or father?
You know how they say that
determines your relationships.
What types of relationships do
you have?
Do you have good
ones or bad ones?”

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